End-of-Life Support
You do not have to figure this out alone. Whether you are planning ahead, supporting a loved one, or navigating the final days, I am here to help.
BIPOC and LGBTQ+ affirming. Serving New Haven, CT and surrounding areas. Virtual and in-person support available.
What the free consultation is
A 45-minute virtual conversation at no cost.
We talk about what you are going through, what you need, and what support could look like.
No commitment required.
Who this is for
Someone who is dying and wants support.
A family member or caregiver who needs help.
Anyone planning ahead for end of life.
Anyone who does not know where to start.
How we meet
By video call from anywhere.
In person in New Haven and surrounding areas.
At the bedside when needed.
What this is not
Not medical care.
Not therapy or counseling.
Not emergency support.
If you are in a medical emergency call 911.
If you need mental health crisis support call or text 988.
Our Services
A group grief gathering held in sacred space, open to those who are grieving or supporting someone who is. Rooted in collective healing, cultural acknowledgment, and the understanding that grief was never meant to be carried alone. Affirming for BIPOC and LGBTQ+ communities. Please note: this is not counseling or therapy. This is a community grief ritual held by a trained end-of-life doula.
A one-on-one grief ritual session drawing from ancestral and Caribbean spiritual traditions. Designed for those who need more than talk — who need to move grief through the body and honor the dead in a sacred way. Please note: this is not counseling or therapy. I am an end-of-life doula offering ritual grief support rooted in cultural and spiritual practice.
For individuals and families who want to plan ahead while there is still time and space to do so with intention. Includes advance care planning, values and wishes documentation, legacy project initiation, and family education. Rooted in cultural and spiritual care.
A complimentary 30-minute virtual conversation to learn about Atabey Obsidiana's end-of-life doula services, ask questions, and explore whether we are the right fit for your family's needs. No pressure, no obligation.
Individual grief support sessions for those navigating loss. Sessions are 60 minutes and held virtually or in person. Rooted in somatic and spiritual approaches to grief, honoring the full weight of what it means to lose someone. Please note: this is not counseling or therapy. I am an end-of-life doula offering grief companionship and spiritual support.
Full accompaniment from planning through death and bereavement. Combines all phases of support: advance planning, active support, vigil, after death care, and bereavement follow-up into one continuous relationship with your family.
Support at the threshold. The final hours, the moment of death, and the time immediately after. Includes vigil holding, sacred after death care, and family support in the immediate aftermath. Guided by both evidence-based practice and ancestral tradition.
Sustained doula support for individuals in active decline or hospice. Includes companion care, respite for caregivers, medical navigation, logistical support, and emotional presence across the dying process. Available as a flat package or hourly.
Please contact directly for hourly.
care@atabeyobsidiana.com